Welcome to our blog
October 8, 2008
Hi and welcome to our blog Vanilla Spankos. My girlfriend/Mistress or I will post a bit more of an intro later on, explaining how we met and came together but basically we have a somewhat complicated relationship that has both elements of vanilla and BDSM including domestic discipline but we also occasionally switch and I go Top.
We’ve been together for two months now and it’s been tricky figuring it all out but we’ve stuck with it even when people said it couldn’t be done and we have an amazing relationship now that continues to grow every day and I know will continue to do so for a long time.
It’s not role-playing, it’s not fake – which is a typical criticism of switching. We have rules around it that help us know who’s top and when it’s ok to switch and we’ll share those with you all for those who don’t want a full-time BDSM relationship or want to occasionally switch.
Also we’ll be sharing tips on setting up a home for BDSM, spanking implements and our journey and discovery of BDSM.
